How To Deal! ※
The
breakups: When you get dumped, it doesn't hit you until you see that person again and realize that they are not
yours anymore. That feeling or sadness and emptiness hits you hard and all you
can do is curl up in a ball of blankets, watch sad movies and hate yourself. The
first step to dealing with this is to find your friends, not those that are
friends with your ex (because they might turn on you and stand up for your ex
when really it’s you who needs the support), you need friends who are close to
you and have stuck by you throughout the whole relationship because they will
be the ones to pick you up again…got that person in mind?...Plan a girls night,
this is your only opportunity to binge out on chocolate, ice cream, chips and
lollies, and you need to watch movies! From Scary ones and comedy ones, to
soppy sad love stories and romantic ones! The sad ones will allow you to cry,
whether it is for you lost love or for the movie, and the comedy ones are to
make you laugh and forget about them!
Breakup Movie Musts:
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The Notebook (uhm Duh!)
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Walk to Remember (for all your tears to be washed
away)
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Charlie St Cloud (ZAC EFRON!)
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Safe Haven
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The Jerk Theory
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So Undercover
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Pitch Perfect!!! (Aca-Awesome movie. See what I did
there…)
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Leap Year
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Letters to Juliet
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She’s The Man (CHANNING TO THE TATUM)
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And SO MANY MORE! Just Pick your favorite movies
There
is really no cure to a breakup, you just need the time to heal, so stalk new
boys (I honor thee with the permission to do so), and have fun with your
friends because you WILL be able to pick yourself up again!
The
haters: Haters annoy me, like seriously
do they have nothing better to do? Well the only solution to a hater on the
internet is to block them, report them and ignore them. 3 easy steps! Haters
are the jealous people of the world and they want to either be like you or want
to put you down so they can feel good about themselves. The best way is to not
let any of it get to you and focus on all the positive comments because for
every hater, there are a million people who are nice and loving and they are
your kind of people!
The judgmental friend: When you have a Judgmental girl at your school or
even a judgmental friend it is really hard being yourself around them because
you easily feel that they are constantly judging you by what you wear, what you
look like, maybe even what you sound like and it is pretty impossible not to
feel insecure about yourself. To me, these people are bullies because they do
have a tendency to talk about you behind your back like “Oh my god, did you see
how much makeup she was wearing, she’s such a sl*t” When really makeup is
probably the only thing that is letting her get up in the morning and go to school
feeling confidant, and even that, she probably wasn't wearing that much makeup
as well. I think that anyone who is mean to anyone all relates back to the fact
that they are jealous of you which means there is nothing you can do about it because
all girls are judgmental of one another, however some girls take it to a whole
new level which is where you can either a) ignore the girl because you are
better than that (If this girl is just some mean girl and is not really a
friend) or b) If the person is a close friend of yours, you need to talk to
them and tell them that its rude and its hurting a lot of people’s feelings
because then they might understand and stop the amount of judging things that they
say and if they don’t, it might be time to let that friend go.
The
best friends: When best
friends fight and each choose friends to be on their side and your just there,
stuck in the middle, is probably one of the hardest things to deal with because
you know that you can loose on friend or both friends altogether. So your job
is to be the peacemaker and solve everyone’s problems which are a pain in everyone’s
ass.
The
Peacemakers Guide to solving fights in Friendship
Step 1: Actually find out what the
fight is about and get both sides of the stories.
Step 2: See what facts match up and
what facts don’t
Step 3: Talk to friends about the
situation, so basically interrogate them on what they know and whose fault they
think the fight was.
Step 4: From all the information
gathered, you should know what the fight is about and now it’s time to solve
it!
Step 5: If it is over a guy, tell
them that they should never fight over a guy and loose a friendship over because
it will be a massive mistake and part of the girl code: Hoe’s Over Bros!
Step 6: If it’s over lies and just
bitchiness, that’s just girls and you can either a) trick them into meeting up
to solve their problems themselves or b) Sit down with them BOTH, and say that
they have been friends for too long to lose a friendship over.
Step 7: If Steps 5 and 6 don’t work
then maybe they were never good friends in the first place and this was bound
to happen sooner or later, it sadly comes down to your decision of deciding who
you think is a better friend that will be by your side always, and if none of
them come in mind, find another group of friends that you like as well!
The
Parentals: Parents trying to control is the worst thing
imaginable, because in most cases you’re the one who likes to control your own
self. Your temper rages when you have to repeat things a billion times and you
can’t help but talk back because you believe you are right. The only advice
that I can give anyone who has annoying parents is just act yourself, just don’t
get too angry or mean, because in the teenage years it’s all about finding
yourself and your allowed to yell and get mad, but when you’re older you will
learn to appreciate you parents, these things just take time.
Just
don’t do drugs. Or hang out with people who are on the wrong tracks of life.
WOOOOO!!!
Thank you everyone who sat, and read, and maybe
enjoyed this post! I really hope that this has helped many or even just some of
you in your life. If you have any more problems that your struggling or don’t know
how to deal with COMMENT below, because maybe I’m going through the same things
and can offer my help!
Anyway, I hope everyone has a lovely day, evening,
morning, or wherever you are and that you are spending your weekend having fun,
eating chocolate and sitting on tumblr….
No don’t tumblr will destroy you with its beautiful
addictivness
BYEEE for now pretties
Xoxo
Sophia!
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